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05-18-2002, 12:45 AM
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telling my girl about gear use
should i tell my girl i use? did you? how did you tell her. i think she is wondering where my money goes.
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05-18-2002, 01:45 AM
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I threw in a feeler at my fiance, just to see what her opinions are about gear use. She freaked!!! But, it's going to be hard hiding it from her!
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05-18-2002, 02:07 AM
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Luckily every girl I dated and now my wife, have always been pretty cool and understanding about it. Just come clean with her, she might freak a little bit at first, and if she does then just sit her down and explain the TRUTH about gear. Remember, she probably only knows about what she has seen in the media about gear, so once you explain to her how it really is, she will probably come around.
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05-18-2002, 02:24 AM
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My wife caught me with a bag full of gear in Cancun. I was busted. LOL! She doesn't really like it but she deals with it. Atleast I don't have to hide my use and now she does my glute and delt shots. God bless her.
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05-18-2002, 02:29 AM
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PB, she is a keeper
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05-18-2002, 02:30 AM
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i just about told the last girl i was seeing, but i'm glad i didn't since we are no longer together...most chicks just don't understand it...when i do explain it to a chick...i put it this way...i tell them if there was a drug that would make their ass smaller and tits bigger, but it's illegal and may have some potential side effects and then say imagine i had some to give them for a hundred bucks... would they buy it??? hell yeah!!! almost all of them say yes...so, that's how i explain what juice is to guys like myself
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05-18-2002, 03:33 AM
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I did the same as chaos and thru in a word or two and told her the good things about AAS and not what the media portrays it. She still dose not like it. And I keep a bottle or two of gear and pins on my dresser and told her what it was. So she know I'm using but dose not know when I use it.
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05-18-2002, 08:30 PM
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Definatley feel her out on it first......if she freaks then i would hold off on telling her for a while. Make sure you have a good reason when you do tell her. Oh and dont let her catch you first........then your fucked. It happend to me and it went over like a fart in church. If she is cool then hey you may have nothing to worry about. let us know how that shit goes.
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05-19-2002, 01:11 AM
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The prob is the media paints such a morbid picture of gear... and usually describes the side effects in great detail. So, my girl bounces off that instead of actually be willing to do a bit of reading herself and see that structured use (not abuse) is pretty safe. Oh well...
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05-19-2002, 01:12 AM
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My feeling is this, I dont believe in giving anyone anything they could use against me. First time you have a bad argument it will come up. I have told a few in the past and never had troube, but after we broke up,I was uncomfortable with her having something over my head. And if she knows, 5 of her friends know, bet on that. Be careful
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05-19-2002, 07:05 AM
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My woman actually begs me to take it again! LOL
I guess she likes the side--affects 8---
Seriously though, If you are truly in love with her and plan to keep the relationship together honesty is the best policy. Its a just a matter of time before she figures out why your taking out the trash bin every week WITHOUT being asked to.
I dont feel the "Hey bitch Im sticking needles in my ass!" approach is overly succesfull but perhaps a slip her some small snippets of information regularly will tend to be less shocking.
Tell her that woman are now taking male hormones to improve their quality of life (See Operah.com). And reasure her that you are in no way becoming some kind of junkie.
A little bit of understanding will go a long way toward her acceptance of what may seem a strange pursuit.
Overall be patient, and never let her blame your bad days on using gear.
best of luck
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05-19-2002, 12:43 PM
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Ha! My wife thinks you can die of cancer if you take gear! She even thinks amino acids are bad for you. I tell her that amino acids are proteins but she won't hear of it. She thinks aminos can f*ck you up too!
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05-19-2002, 02:00 PM
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Never told mine and probably never will.
If we wouild ever split up, she'd use it against me. Been together 13 years. I hint around a little that if I ever lose my sex drive, I'll start HRT. BTW, I'm 43.
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05-20-2002, 12:35 AM
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05-20-2002, 04:35 AM
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As an old married guy that juices, I say....never lie to your lady.
You want her keeping shit from you? I tried to keep my first cycle a secret. Eventually she informed me that "she wasn't stupid" and she knew all along.
We sat together and learned all about gear together after that. Education is the key. She's cool with it now.
If you can't respect each others intelligence...what do you have?
K...I'm done!
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05-20-2002, 04:55 AM
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i dont keep anything from my girl who will be my wife soon she dosnt like it at all but its what i do so she understands i think you should just say it
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05-20-2002, 04:35 PM
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my girl was cool wiht it for my first cycle she actually even helped me with some money, but towards the end of my cycle we got in a littlew argument and she blammed it on the juice,. So now im on my second cycle and she practically brok up wiht me so i told her i threw it out but im still doing it. She dosnt know. but if she found out she would ride uut on me. It really sucks that she is making me choose her over gear, i dont like the situation.
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05-22-2002, 04:28 AM
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if my girl made me choose i sure would miss her lol
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06-25-2003, 11:18 PM
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LOL PRIEST I WOULD MISS MINE TOO..
But luckily i met my girl while coming off a test cycle with no clomid
she wondered why my cock wouldnt get hard we fucked for 12 hours & amp; i told her the reason for having just a semi boner,she was totally cool with it & amp; wants to take some clen,im convincing her to take a female cycle,she just looks at it as im as hardcore as it gets,meaning WE ARE FREAKS OF NATURE (NOT YOUR AVERAGE JOE),that & amp; she loves the size always grabbing my chest,bis & amp; my rock hard ass due to squats....
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06-26-2003, 12:28 AM
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Damn, my girl likes me juiced....she likes having a big studly bf LOL! That and the performance in the sac is also a plus....She has also done cycles of var, clen, T-3, winny.
She also LOVES to play nurse (gives me my pokes)
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06-26-2003, 04:01 PM
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telling the truth is important bro. so understand. it's only a girlfriend. forget the wife to be shit. most of us have gone through a ton of girlfriends. right now i have b12 laying around if my wife ask questions. she's OVERLY RELIGIOUS, beautiful, good pussy. but if i had to choose. SEE YA! if she found out i know she'd call the feds.
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06-27-2003, 07:41 PM
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Bro, its your call, mine knows and even uses, but everytime we fight she takes my shit and says shes goin to the authorities.... she knows I've got more to lose than she does.... remember (HELL HATH NO FURY AS A WOMANS SCORN)=)
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06-28-2003, 03:33 PM
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My wife is an RN and she knows that I am on the shit and deals with it. When I mention growth and slin she freaks out. She will not do my shots though. We were just dating when she found out. I had already been using steroids when we met, and started a cycle while we were dating without telling her. We were laying in bed one day and she says to me, are you on funking roids? I had to tell her, she knew what was up. By the way I got her pregnant right after a good cycle. I now have a 6 month old girl. Bigwil
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06-29-2003, 03:11 AM
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advice:
girlfriend = no
engaged = maybe
married = maybe lol
I've seen to many bros go down from thier girl, they rat them out. Yes they all thought she was cool too. until the day came
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07-01-2003, 09:12 AM
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I met my g/f asking me for a clen source, so from day 1 I knew I was fine... she is totally suportivie and on herself.
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