got an STD but girl claims she aint cheating?

Jay454 · #1 (**permalink**) 05-07-2002, 08:54 PM

i havent been with anyone else in 3 years. now i have an STD and she claims she was loyal? WTF? could i get it some other way?

rajizi · #2 (**permalink**) 05-07-2002, 09:12 PM

Not really. There were some cases where mouth herpes tranfered to genital herpes. Also, it can stay dormant for quiet some time, but 3 years is pushing it. Have her tested, and if she's positive, and you've haven't been with anyone else, its safe to assume she gave it to you.

BR

buffarat · #3 (**permalink**) 05-08-2002, 04:51 AM

Fuck that bro, that hurts, tell her to go with you to get tested. If she starts acting defensive or bothered.....well........then she is probably being dishonest. I wouldn't trust anyone for a while, unfortunatley odds are not in her favor if you havent been with anyone in three years. Sounds like you are handling it alot better than i would have. Cover your bases bro, good luck.

astrolifter · #4 (**permalink**) 05-08-2002, 06:41 AM

If its genital warts you caught, its very possible she has had it for years and didn't know it because she was a 'dormant' carrier. What I mean by that is a lot of people will carry the virus and never express any symptoms of the STD.

Freez · #5 (**permalink**) 05-08-2002, 07:43 AM

What was the STD? Astro makes a good point.

Peace. Freez.

Jay454 · #6 (**permalink**) 05-08-2002, 10:09 AM

it was warts. but why now, if i am a carrier, why would it show up now in me after all this time? makes no sense.....

DAMONSTER · #7 (**permalink**) 05-08-2002, 10:17 AM

damn, ouch

rajizi · #8 (**permalink**) 05-08-2002, 06:57 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Jay454
it was warts. but why now, if i am a carrier, why would it show up now in me after all this time? makes no sense.....

Its possible for it to lay unsymtomatic for years bro. Have her tested and see if shes a carrier also.

BR

Argentino · #9 (**permalink**) 05-08-2002, 06:58 PM

/t\ ahh, its nothing... we all get an itch every once in a while....

get her to suck your d*ck so she gets them in her mouth.... that'll get her back.......

justalittlepup · #10 (**permalink**) 05-09-2002, 01:34 PM

Like Raj said, you could have caught it years ago and just been a carrier all this time. Samn thing with HIV/AIDS, so people have it for years and not even know it.